You can use RequiredFieldValidator control with InitialValue as the default value for the DropDownList box.
<asp:DropDownList id="DropDownList1" runat="server">
<asp:ListItem Selected="True">Select a name</asp:ListItem>
<asp:ListItem>Ram</asp:ListItem>
<asp:ListItem>Shyam</asp:ListItem>
<asp:ListItem>Mohan</asp:ListItem>
</asp:DropDownList>
<asp:RequiredFieldValidator id="RequiredFieldValidator1"
runat="server" ErrorMessage="Please make a selection"
ControlToValidate="DropDownList1"
InitialValue="Select a name" >
</asp:RequiredFieldValidator>
In this case, unless the user will select other item than "Select a name" from the dropdown, the form will not be submitted.